If you are a man who has recently considered giving or receiving a blow job or hand job from another man, you might be feeling guilty and conflicted about the thought of the experience, especially if you have always considered yourself to be straight or heterosexual. You may have further confused emotions and feelings if you are married, and seeking to have an affair to satisfy these desires and urges that are not being fulfilled at home. You do not need to feel guilty or conflicted about your sexual curiosity. Instead, you should understand that you are heteroflexible and therefore completely normal. Heteroflexible is a term that refers to a person who enjoys occasional sexual activities with members of the same sex but still considers himself straight.

Engaging in sexual activities with another man does not make you gay. It simply indicates that you have certain desires that your wife or girlfriend cannot help you fill. Men understand their bodies. They know what feels good. When a man gives another man a blowjob, he is able to make the experience extremely pleasurable. Even if your female partner is willing to give you oral sex, she does not have the first hand knowledge of the male body that makes men so good at performing oral sex on another man. It is only natural to enjoy receiving a blow job from another man. You should not let outdated cultural interpretations of human sexuality prevent you from enjoying a full and varied sex life.
Our society's current conception of sexuality views homosexuality and heterosexuality as complete opposites. Some historical societies did not view human sexuality as a binary. They had a more inclusive view of acceptable sexual relationships. Sexual relationships between men were very common in ancient Greece, for example. Men married women, but did not hesitate to seek out sexual relationships with other men outside of their marriage. In ancient Rome, men proved their masculinity by being the sexually dominant partner. According to Roman cultural standards, it was better to be the partner who gave sexual intercourse than to be the partner who received it. The fact that these sexual experiences were with men was simply not an issue. Neither the ancient Greeks nor the ancient Romans viewed human sexuality as a binary.
Very few people are entirely gay or entirely straight. Some prefer to classify themselves as bisexual or even heteroflexible. Researchers who study human sexuality argue that human sexuality as a continuum. People might be straighter or gayer but very few people are entirely gay or completely straight. Most people occasionally experience attraction to members of the same sex. Enjoying a blowjob from another man does not make you gay; it simply means that you are human and that you enjoy pleasurable sexual experiences. Do not let feelings of guilt make you question your identity. Of course, during any sexual encounter you should take proper precautions against sexually transmitted diseases. As long as you are engaging in safer sex, however, you should abandon yourself to pleasure and enjoy the touch of another human being. Most individuals are heteroflexible and today's human sexuality scholars agree. Receiving a blow job from a man or giving oral sex to a male partner does not mean that you are gay. It just means that you are normal.